The best way to make a leak free sex tape, is to not upload your sex tape anywhere. If you really want to share it, then where you do so will dictate how likely it is to leak. Sharing a sex tape with a partner via a file sharing service is one way to do this; however, if you want to share your sex tape with the public, but in a controlled way, then pick a video hosting service with a pay wall. Be aware that most browsers have video download extensions available, which means that if someone really wants to, they could in theory download your video and then share it themselves in other places which do not require any form of payment.

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If you are going to make a sex tape in the first place, you may as well make it so that it will not leak. This is actually harder than it sounds. But we will come to that later -- right now, let us answer the question of why you might want to make a sex tape in the first place. The most common reason is that it turns you on. Most people have a few kinks, and for some the idea of being watched is a strong sexual urge. This ties in with being filmed, and, further to this, but in the same vein, with the idea of then letting other people then watch the sex tape.

The best thing to do with a sex tape is to watch it with your partner, have a laugh, make out, get down to some post production kinkiness, and leave it at that.

You can go for some of the big players (which we will not mention by name here) which are easily found online. You may have to register with them first, but after that, all you have to do is to upload your sex tape and watch the fun unfold.

Uh... yes... But why would you want to? The fun thing about making a sex tape is sharing it, but do you really want your friends, or, heaven forbid, your family to see it? Of course, if you and your friends are all into kinky stuff, then by all means share the film with your pals

It is best, when making a seemingly legit adult movie, that you do not include a plot, since this will make your so-called real sex tape seem like an amateur video. This is not really the way to go. It is best, instead, to simply film yourself having sex, and let it go from there. It can make it more fun if you have lines to say, and if you dress up then this can help to get you going. But if you want to make it feel real then go for a touch of spontaneity and stay away from cliched sex video tropes that you may find in old fashioned adult material.

There are a few big no-nos when making sex tapes, and while they may be obvious to some, they may not be obvious to others. First, get your camera angle right. Don't have the camera pointing straight at your boyfriend's backside (unless, of course, that is the kind of sex tape you wanted to make), but do have all the good stuff in the frame. The other thing to bear in mind that if you are ill this may be a bad to time to make a sex tape; coughing and sneezing during a key moment is not very sexy, so keep it to yourself. The other thing is to be sure that the people in your sex tape know that you are filming them and that it may be distributed. This is a basic legal right, so make sure you observe it and be open and honest with all parties involved in your movie project.

Sometimes when a sex tape is shared online, it all goes to plan. But at other times, it seems that fate has other things in store! Read on for a few real life stories from people who made a sex tape, only to have it leaked online against their wishes!

"My boyfriend and I made a sex tape so that we could perk up our sex life which had been going a bit downhill since I slept with one of his best friends for a bet. Though I lost the bet, I still managed to keep my boyfriend, who decided that the best way to get our mojo back was to make a sex tape. I got all the usual things one gets for such an escapade, such as lingerie, sex toys, and lube, and started to think about lighting, score, and production values. We made the sex tape, though I felt my boyfriend was less into it than I was. It wasn't until afterwards that I realized he was hardly in the frame at all, though I was -- face an all. The next thing I know, I get an email from one of my girlfriends asking if this is me. Is what me? Well, I followed the link, and there I was. My boyfriend had made a girlfriend revenge video and I had helped him and even encouraged him! Needless to say, he is now my ex, but the tape is still out there. Watch out, girls, some guys just are not gentlemen!"

"When the video hosting site paid me for my video I was pretty pleased with myself. I told the guy I made it with that they hadn't paid anything, and kept the lot. But the last laugh was not mine. I quickly realized that my video was on other sites -- I knew this because I watch a lot of adult videos since I live on my own and have a high sex drive. It was everywhere I looked. At first I was really annoyed, but as the anger started to fade away I started to feel proud of myself. People wanted to see my getting down and dirty with my guy friend that they had gone out of their way to download it and then upload it in other places. I felt pretty pleased about this until I found out that the person who had done it was my guy friend. He had taken his revenge for me holding out on paying him. Live and learn, I guess!"

'I'll just leave this here...' you say, as you upload a sex tape that you just made and most definitely do not want anyone to see, let alone share against your wishes. Then you silently wait for it to go viral. But does it? You wanted it to, you really did. So what went wrong? If you want your sex tape to leak -- and you may wish this to happen for any number of nefarious reasons -- then you should have a look at viral posts in the social media world, and try to figure out what makes them so shareable.

Good sex tapes are few and far between. Often, a sex tape will leak online and every man (and woman) with an interest it the celeb or public figure involved will find a way of watching it. For lower level celebs who just want to get their name out there, having a sex tape leak online is a pretty good way of getting into the tabloids. Upsides of this include greater media exposure, and, if their protestations seem sincere, an upwelling of public sympathy. Certain sex tapes that have leaked online have had this effect. Knowing how to work the situation to your advantage is another thing, though, and some public figures have been called out for leaking their sex tapes on purpose. You can minimize this effect by posting your sex tape on a video hosting site that does not allow downloads, and in fact you can even monetize your work through these sites by having a pay wall that sends funds straight to your bank account, or PayPal account. Out of all of the recently 'leaked' sex tapes one can find on the internet, the most successful and gaining an audience are the ones that seem candid -- tapes that depict nudity and/or cavorting apparently filmed by a boyfriend or girlfriend on a cell phone. Unless you have been hiding under a rock for the last ten or so years, you may have noticed that celebrity sex tapes rarely have a finished quality to them. Rare is the professionally produced leaked sex tape. So the best thing to do if you want to make a sex tape that is worth leaking, wilfully or not, is to keep it shabby. Shabby means lo-fi and realistic, in case you may be wondering how to go about doing this, by the way. Eschew high quality recording. Leave in all the bad bits. Follow the lead of all the good bad sex tapes you have seen (but were not meant to) in the past decade, and you will be golden.

So you want to make sure that your sex tape never leaks? Every once in a while, a celebrity sex tape emerges, and it is not always obvious that they did not want it to. Really famous people who make sex tapes usually do so with the express idea that the tapes will leak and make them even bigger stars -- while they protest against the intrusion, of course. If you do not want this to happen to you, then perhaps do not follow in their footsteps! One of the best ways to make sure that nobody leaks your sex tape is to make sure that you are either a) not famous, or b) not good looking. If you cannot avoid one or both of these, and you do not want your sex tape to leak, then you may want to reconsider making a sex tape in the first place.

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