If you want to get invited to a sex party, hang out at sex clubs, join local groups on the internet, and check out the classifieds at sex shops. The Internet is probably the best way to meet people who are involved in sex parties; that said, meeting people in real life is considered a better way to gain the trust of an organizer, and to find people that you really click with, since most sex parties tend to be quite exclusive and the people who run them screen potential participants carefully.

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Mingling, besides being a funny word, is one of the most useful things to learn when you want to get into any kind of social circle. This is no different if you are trying to get hooked up with the sex party scene. If you want to get to know people who are clued up and plugged in to the sex party scene, then you are going to have to move in strange circles (no, don't walk around in a wobbly oval motion). Going to edgy bars, checking out underground parties, speaking to alternative lifestyle people online and joining secretive meetups will get you closer to getting invited to a sex party. The other thing to try is going to well known swingers bars, or going to a sex club. A lot of sex clubs have orgies that are planned in advance, so you can always check out something like that. If you are looking for a gay sex party, then go to a cruising gym or sauna near you. you will find that many folk who frequent gay bathhouses also get involved in sex parties, so get slippery and get chatting in your nearest spa.

If you want to get down and dirty at a sex club then you will have to get yourself tested first. Have a full test done that looks for all STDs and get blood work done while you are at it. The thing that you ned to remember is that if you have ever had an STD in the past then it may still be present, so even if you are not showing any symptoms you may still be a carrier. If you were thinking of forgoing getting a test, then think about how you would feel if you went to a party with people who had not been tested for STDs recently. You wouldn't want that, would you? It is considered good manners, as well as good hygiene to get tested regularly, no matter if you are in a relationship or if you are active on the sex club scene.

First of all, if you have a partner, and you decide not to take them along to a sex party, then expect to be in the dog house for a while at best, and dumped at worst. Second of all, if you decide to take your partner to a sex party, then expect there to be some extreme emotions released into your romance. Sex parties are best left for the single folk, or folk who are into swinging and wife swapping, as well as the cuckold community. For most people, the sight of their partner getting intimate with some other person is just too much to handle, and it often leads to a breakup. Of course, there are other people who are into this kind of pain (or pleasure, or a certain mixture of the two), but for most people sex parties are something to do while you are single.

You can meet people who go to sex parties anywhere, because they are people after all. The trick is getting to know which ones they are. Certain places have higher levels of background sex party people, and these include swingers clubs, sex clubs, gay bath houses, sex shops, and places like that. Of course, you can also meet people online, and in fact that is probably the best way to do so. A word of warning, though -- never agree to meet someone alone, and always be sure that the person who you are meeting is who they say they are. Do a lot of research before you go anywhere -- this isn't just any old bake sale you're going to (though if you are lucky you may enjoy a nice cream pie).

This is not as easy to do as you may think. If you want to host your own sex party, you need to have a venue that will be suitable, plus you will need to know enough people to invite. Then there is catering and drinks provision, if they are part of what you want to do. You will also most likely be expected to preside, meaning that you may end up doing more refereeing of other guests than having actual sex. You may want to think long and hard before you decide that you want to host your own sex party, since it requires a special kind of host and it takes a lot more work than you may realize. You will have to think about a lot of different issues, such as the venue, how to cater to your guests, as well as clear up, and legal issues that may arise.

It can be hard to spot a dud sex party, but there for sure a few warning signs to look out for. If it has been organized through a Facebook page then it may be legit, but check to see whether the page actually has members, and watch out for overly public advertising, since you will not want to go to a sex party that any old Tom, Dick, or Harry can go along to unannounced. If there is no website to go to, or if you find that your host has given you a fake name, a fake address, or has asked for money, or for more people to be brought to the venue, then you can be sure that you have found a lemon in the lime pile, and you should probably just put it back and look elsewhere. You can see some good ideas for spotting a great sex party in our next section.

If you have to know a friend of a friend, that is usually a good sign. If they screen you, that can also be a sign that other guests will be screened, which is good for all involved. If there is screening, if the hosts seem polite and are helpful, then you know that you will be in good hands. Yo can also check out what kind of venue the sex party is going to happen at -- is it a real club, or is it a back room over a pizza shop? Is it just some guy's room? Is it a night club? Is it a pool hall? Or is it a real venue where a nice sex party could in theory take place? The other thing is that you may be asked to pay a cover. If it is very high, then welcome to scam land, my friend. But if it's in the area of 20 bucks then this is legit. Other good signs are that there is a website for the party, or for the party organizers. You will find that most good sex party hosts will have a real online presence that you can use to both verify them, and yourself, and reach out to them, and they you. This is also a good way to get involved in the sex party community.

As dumb as it may sound, be prepared to have sex. Many people who go to a sex party seem to think about all the things that they do not really need to think about too much, such as whether they have enough condoms, and whether or not that itchy rash is really as bad as it smells; the thing you really need to worry about is in fact whether you are any good at sex. As with most things in this life, one is not really any good at anything unless they have been trained. You can see a sex trainer in advance if needs be. They can be easily found in your local telephone book, or through a search on the Internet. Other things to think about are clothing (you will need to be able to remove your clothes very fast, and you may need to have to mop stains off them at a moment's notice), as well as personal hygiene. Have a thorough shower before you go.

Yes, unless you have been asked to bring another person. Then again, crashing a party with a whole group of people in tow is considered pretty bad manners, so do not do this unless you do not want to get invited back again. You may not want to bring your partner if you think that they would not have a nice time, but you can certainly call up any past hookups that may be interested. If you have a sex partner who you can trust then by all means bring him or her or it along with you.

This really does depend on how comfortable you are with your friends, and how cool with alternative lifestyles they may be. If you want to spread the net a bit further and find yourself some other pals to take along to your new found sex party, then you can think about telling folk what you get up to if you think that they will be cool with it, but maybe hold back from telling your family and church congregation, as well as your boss, unless you want all of the above to turn up just when you in the throes of passion, because that would literally be a nightmare. But by all means, get connected on the Internet with a wider community, and tell your new friends at any sex clubs that you have started to frequent on a regular basis. This is a good way to make your sex party hangs all the more fun.

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