Navigating the world of gay sex and relationships takes time, practice and dedication. Not everything is going to work for every gay man but there are some basic skills that make gay sex even better for everyone involved. In gay sex, a top is a person who is the penetrator and they have a responsibility to make their bottom, the receiver, feel good. However, there are many gay men who do not know the best way to please their bottom which makes sex mediocre. If you want to learn how to make your bottom feel amazing, then you need to learn how to communicate with your bottom and understand their needs and desires.

There are many different ways to be a better top. One of the easiest things to do is to make your bottom feel comfortable. When your bottom is uncomfortable, it is hard for the both of you to have fun when you are having sex since you will be unable to enjoy the moment. Another way that you can do this is to make sure that you are keeping sex safe and fun by properly preparing for it. This preparation includes making sure that you have enough lube and condoms but also taking the time to prepare your partner before engaging in sex. When it comes to being a better top, the things that you do before you have sex are equally important as what you do during sex. This is because a pre-sex routine can affect how good the sex is.

To be a better top, you need to make changes on both the physical and mental level. On the physical side, conditioning your body can help improve your overall stamina as well as let you try out various fun and interesting sex positions. It also involves knowing your body, what it can do and how to make it work for you to be able to please other men. It also means that you need to think about your bottom's pleasure and comfort to make sure that there are no distractions or difficulties between you. On the mental side, learning how to change your thinking so that you are able to connect better with your bottom is very important if you want to be a better top.

Before getting intimate with anyone you should always take a shower. Feeling fresh and clean will make you feel prepared for being intimate with another man and make the sexual experience better. It will make your partner feel comfortable and more at ease and they will appreciate the effort that you are making to make them happy. This will make them want to reciprocate and show you how much that they appreciate you. Being clean also helps to lower the risk of disease or discomfort later on. Showing consideration to your partner and their comfort is the most important thing to do to make yourself a better top.

Before you have sex, you should spend a lot of time in the shower thoroughly cleaning your body. This means taking special care to comb through your pubic hair and even trimming or shaving it, depending on your preference. Pubic hair can get very sweaty and hold onto dirt and mess which is why it is important to take care to clean it very well before you have sex with someone. You want to make sure that everything looks neat and tidy which will show your bottom that you appreciate being with them and want this to be a fun and special experience for the both of you.

Nobody wants to put anything near or in their mouth if it is not clean or if it smells bad so being clean is very important. Uncomfortable smells or uncleanliness will ruin the mood very quickly and affect your chances of having sex. It is important to be clean and hygienic if you want to be a better top. You do not have wear a lot of perfumed fragrances to make yourself smell better, just make sure that you are taking a shower at least once a day and that you are taking a shower before you have sex as well. Also, you should skip a lot of the cologne because some men can be sensitive to the scents and it might not react well with sweat and the physical activity that you are doing. Instead, use a deodorant or antiperspirant and special wipes for your private areas to get rid of any odors.

Another thing that is important is to keep a steady supply of condoms and lubes with you. This will help sex with your bottom feel better. Lube can make penetration easier and condoms lower the risk of diseases. It also shows that you care about their health and wellbeing. It is recommended that you get tested before sexual encounters so that you are aware of your status and can let your partner know which will make them feel safer and more confident in choosing you. Although the risk of HIV with oral sex is low, you should still make sure that you are being clean and sanitary so that your bottom is more comfortable.

If you are planning on having sex with your bottom, it is important to take things slow. Make sure to warm up with some foreplay first to help make your bottom feel comfortable and increase their sexual experience. Keep in mind that your bottom might not be as experienced as you are and taking things slowly will help everyone feel more comfortable. If you are planning on trying anal sex, going slow is the only way to do it to make sure that you both enjoy yourselves. If you thrust too hard or try to push it too quickly, it is going to be very painful and will ruin the mood. Whether for casual hookups or long-term relationships, it is important to take the time to prepare your partner properly so that it is a pleasurable experience for both of you.

Foreplay is also very important to help you and your partner get in the mood. Foreplay can include kissing, sensual touching or even oral sex. Foreplay should not be considered a means to an end and something that you grudgingly have to do, but another part of the sexual experience. When you are both ready to move on to anal or more hardcore sex, then you want to make sure that you are properly preparing your partner and making sure that they are ready before you do anything. When it comes to anal sex, it is necessary to go slow especially in the beginning so that you do not cause unnecessary pain or injury. This area of the body is very fragile and can tear easily so you need to make sure that you are taking care of your partner's limits.

Sex is fun but it also involves a lot of trusts. This means that your responsibility as a top includes paying attention to what your partner is saying and what their body language is like so that you can make sure that they are alright and that you both are enjoying yourselves. Sex is more enjoyable when both people are into it. If not, it just feels awkward and uncomfortable and you will notice when your partner is not having fun with you. It can make you feel inadequate and even rejected. If you want to be a better top, you need to learn to read your partner's body and their unspoken signals so that you can see when they are having the best time. If they are tense or stiff then this is a sign that they are uncomfortable and that you should take a step back and figure out why. At the same time, if they are moving closer to you, kissing you or wrapping their arms around you, this is a sign that they are very interested in what is going on. It is important to pay attention to your partner's body language to help determine what they like and do not like and whether or not they want to continue.

If you want to help your partner get in the mood and be a better top, learning their erogenous zones is the way to do it. These zones are points on a man's body that when touched, stroked or breathed on will make him more sexually aroused. These zones are primarily stimulated during foreplay but they can also be done during sex as well. The top pleasure zones on most men's bodies are behind the ear, the neck, nipples, the navel, thigh bones, and anywhere near to the pubic area. These zones are going to increase your bottom's sexual pleasure and make it easier for them to reach completion. The worst thing that a top can do is to leave their bottom to fend for themselves and stimulate their own body so that they can orgasm. You always want to make sure that they orgasm and that you are not leaving them to take care of their own pleasure.

If you want to be a better top, you should feel comfortable letting your partner take control. He is going to know what he enjoys and what feels good for him so you should take your cues from this and let him pick his position. It can be very sexy and fun for the both of you. It is also a great way for him to show you what he likes and what he does not like. It can also be very sexy to have him boss you around a little and show you what he likes. It shows that he is very confident and comfortable with you which will only make your sex life better.

Even though your partner is in control, it is still important to check in with them as well so that you can make sure that they are still feeling good and enjoying what you are doing together. If anything feels uncomfortable, take a step back and ask them what you can do and go back to foreplay for a bit. When they are feeling better, try it again. It is not always going to be perfect on the first try which is why taking your time will help make everything go more smoothly. When you let him pick the pace, there is less of a chance of there being any kind of miscommunication.

If you want to be a better top, you should try bottoming. The top dating advice recommends that all gay men should try bottoming at least once so that they know what feels good when they are on the receiving end. When you are able to put yourself in your partner's place and experience what they are experiencing, you will know what they need to feel good and the correct pace that you need to go to make them feel satisfied. You will learn what the best positions are and how much preparation they need to make the experience easier and more sexually arousing. Every man is an individual and has their own desires and needs but by learning and experiencing the different positions in gay sex, you can help improve your partner's pleasure which will build your sexual confidence and prowess.

A bottom will feel more confident in trusting a top that is versatile. They will trust that you know what you are doing and that you will make them feel incredible. Tops and bottoms have different experiences in sex and some things will feel better for different partners but when you are able to experience both sides of it, it is easier to find out what feels the best and how to compromise to make everyone happy. Being adventurous as well as being willing to try new things is an important trait for a top to have.

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