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The roots of the sex trade in New York go back to the very early days of the dutch
founders, when it was decided that this burgeoning trading port would do well to provide
such services to its growing transient working class population. By the 1630s, Bordellos
were established and flourished almost immediately, though there were some pretty
strange regulations in the early days (men under 5 feet tall were not permitted to
enter, for instance). Over the next hundred years, the city's pleasure industry grew so
much that George Washington famously expressed alarm over it in his diary while
stationed in the city in 1776.
Over the next couple of decades, the waves and
waves of immigrants from all over the world would solidify New York's reputation as the
wildest place in the world, where you could see beautiful women from all corners of the
globe. Throughout the 19th century, brothels were all over New York and its boroughs and
completely unregulated. To some people, the widespread lawless pleasure-seeking and
partying was leading the city towards a crisis of morality and public health. But by the
same token, it was pretty hard to find a public official or law enforcement officer who
didn't have some level of, um, sympathy for what was going on in the brothels.
By the 1920s, during the prohibition era, the city finally figured out how it was going to regulate nudity and sex in public spaces, introducing laws that started to give shape to today's modern sex club landscape. It was also around this time that the first gay resorts and bath houses started to appear in a few parts of the city. By the later 20th century, sex clubs and strip joints were flourishing across New York, a combination of economic factors and growing liberal attitudes about sex in public. The 70s and 80s were a golden era for swingers clubs, gay bars and saunas in New York. The stories of decadence and debauchery are absolutely legendary. Of course, under Rudy Giuliani and his various policies to "crack down" on issues of morality, a number of venues were forced to close, or significantly restructure their operations. The Giuliani era left us with the much disliked "60/40 rule," which means that 60% of a space housing a sex spot must be devoted to a non sex-related business. For this reason, it's not uncommon to head out to a strip club that's also a steakhouse, or some similar configuration.
Once you factor in the real estate boom that's happened in New York since the mid-2000s, you have even more places being forced to close. The New York of today has far less clubs than other times in its past, which is a bit of bummer. The good news, though, is that the clubs it has now are well established and world class. They're too big to fail, basically. It's a different world nowadays when it comes to sex and swinging, and in New York that means that much of what's out there is a tried and true institution.
If you want a sure thing, guaranteed great sex party, sex club, or sex event in New York City to go to, you'll probably want to try for later in the week. Obviously New York is a 24 hour city, with something for everyone at anytime. Nevertheless, if you want to maximize your chances (especially as a couple), go for the weekend. More events, more people: you do the math. Also, if going all night is part of the plan, everything's open way later on the weekend. All this matters less if you're a dude looking for other dudes. The two big saunas are open 24/7, and the middle of the work week is an amazing time to meet a lot of people and get a lot of action. And of course, if you're just wandering solo and curious, there are tons of great strip joints to check out.
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