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How to Have Gay Outdoor Sex

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Park cruising is an integral part of the history of gay sex. For many, this was the only place where they could find casual hookups and be themselves. Besides this history, outdoor gay sex is very fun and enticing for any man who is looking to add some excitement to their dating life. Gay outdoor sex can be a very and sexy activity to do in both casual relationships and long-term relationships. However, there are a few simple rules that you should follow if you are planning on having sex outdoors. You want to have the exciting thrill that comes with having sex in public without actually getting caught.

If you want to have gay outdoor sex then you need to pick your location very carefully. The location will affect how long the encounter will be as well as the types of activities that you can do with your partner. It also affects what you should bring with you to add to your comfort. Every location has its advantages and disadvantages and will affect your overall experience. It is also important to think about the time that you will be meeting up so that you are not going to be easily interrupted. Although there will always be the risk of discovery which is part of the fun of outdoor sex, you want to make sure that you minimize the possibility so that you do can easily enjoy yourself.

Another thing to keep in mind when it comes to gay outdoor sex is what you can do outside versus what you cannot do. There are some positions or things that are difficult to navigate outdoors. The nature of outdoor sex is that it needs to be fast and easy to do otherwise you will spend too much time trying to get things going on and that will cut into time with your hookups. The best thing that you can do to make gay outdoor sex is preparing for it by making a plan before you meet up. This will help minimize the amount of time you waste trying to figure out how things are going to work, what position you are going to try, where you should hook up, etc. When you have a plan, you can enjoy stress-free hookups without any problems.

Pick the Location

The first thing that you have to do before having gay outdoor sex is to pick the location where you are going to do it. Every location is going to have their own pros and cons and you will pick one depending on your own personal preference as well as what type of hookups you are indulging in. If you are not comfortable with having outdoor sex in public then you might try joining up with a community of people that have monthly sex parties or hookup events. Many of these events will take place on private resorts and properties and outdoor sex is a very popular thing to do at these sex parties. Being in this type of hookup environment is perfect for people who want to try outdoor sex but are not ready to be an exhibitionist. There is less pressure on you and your hookups because you are in a place that encourages gay outdoor sex.

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If you want to try out outdoor sex in a public place instead, then there are a few different options. One of the options for outdoor sex in public parks. These places were very popular in the past for gay hookups and are still great options for outdoor hookups today. Parks are relatively clean, compared to forests or mountain trails, which is another reason why they are popular. This means that you do have to worry about trash being on the ground. If you are planning to have gay sex in a park, make sure that you are away from popular paths and trails so that you do not get discovered and arrested for public sex. You should pick a more secluded area such as hiding behind some bushes to make sure that you are not easily discovered. A beach is also a popular spot and they are less patrolled during the slightly colder months of fall, winter and early spring, especially late at night. However, these places will always have the risk of discovery because they are in public.

Stay Safe

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Before you try gay outdoor sex then you need to know how to be safe and minimize the health and discovery risks to you and your partner. On the health side, you want to make sure that you are in a relatively clean spot or that you are putting down a blanket or something to limit the amount of contact between your bodies and the ground. Since you are going to be naked or partially naked, it is important to make sure that you are being hygienic and keeping yourselves safe as well. For instance, if you are having sex on a beach, bringing some water to help clean yourselves of sand and dirt will help minimize the risk of infection. You should also bring condoms and lube so that you do not cause each other injury and to minimize the risk of STDs.

You also want to make sure that you limit the risk of the two of you being discovered and interrupted. This means that you should pick places that are out of the way and have less walking traffic or people who are going to be walking around it. You should also pick the times where these places are going to be empty. Your hookups are likely going to take place late at night or very early in the morning. You should also pick a spot that is not easily visible such as behind a tree, bush or small structure so that if someone does come near you, they will not see you. If you can pick a spot that is also a little quieter so that you can hear when someone is coming so that you can be prepared to get away if you need to. The very nature of this type of sex means that it will be relatively fast so that you do not get discovered. This is why it is important to make sure that you are limiting the number of things that you need to do afterward like cleaning up.

Be Adventurous

Having gay outdoor sex is very sexy. There is a fear of discovery involved with having sex out in the open where anyone might be able to see you. This can be sexually enticing and help add some excitement to long-term relationships or people who are looking to experience a new side of themselves. If you want to get the most of an outdoor sexual experience then you need to make sure that you are actually willing to do something crazy and adventurous. There are a lot of different ways that gay outdoor sex can be very enjoyable beyond the actual act of sex. The act of preparing for what will happen can help build up the anticipation and excitement. It is important to have the right attitude for having outdoor sex otherwise you are not going to have fun.

If you are planning on having gay outdoor sex then you need to get in the right mindset. You want to be aware of your surroundings but also be able to get out of your head at the same time so that you are not spending the whole time worrying about getting into trouble. Spending too much time worrying is going to make it very hard to enjoy the moment. It is also important to switch things up with your partner and want to experience new things together which is why outdoor sex is very popular for both casual relationships and long-term relationships. If you need some help getting out of your head, incorporate roleplaying into your outdoor sexual encounter. By pretending to be someone who is more sexually adventurous, you will adopt this same attitude towards gay outdoor sex and this will make you more sexually aroused.

Pick the Right Time

You want to pick the right time to try out gay outdoor sex, pick a time of day that fits into your schedule as well as encourages the actual sexual activity. This means that you need to be researching the place that you are choosing to have sex beforehand. Beaches tend to be more patrolled during the weekends and at nights because this is when a lot of people are either having sex or are finding places to hang out and drink. If you choose a park, the more secluded it is the less busy it will be especially at night. It is important to do your research and also scope out the places that you are looking to have sex in before you hook up so that you see when the least busy times are.

There are certain areas and times of the day that are more heavily patrolled and filled with people. This time is usually during the early afternoon, early evening as well as very late at night but it also depends on the day. Parks are going to be very busy on weekends because many people are not working and so they are out enjoying themselves. If you want to try gay outdoor sex, pick a time when the weather is not too warm or too cold. You do not want to be in direct sunlight and during the warmer months, people spend a lot of time outside since the weather is nice. It is important to pick times that are not busy so that there is a smaller chance of discovery.

The Right Position

There are three popular positions when it comes to gay outdoor sex. The first one is standing sex which can be done against a tree or building. This standing position is perfect for places that have a lot of forestries like trees and large bushes. However, it also has a higher risk of discovery since you will be at eye level for anyone who is going to be walking by. Standing sex is also a very pleasurable position for both partners. The second position is lying down or crouching behind a bush or other small structure. This position will mean that you will be touching the ground so you will probably want to bring a blanket or some type of clothing that can help protect you from the dirt. The third position is another lying position which involves one partner being on their hands and elbows or knees.

The most important thing to remember when it comes to outdoor gay sex positions is that it should involve the least amount of work and preparation. This is why it is a good idea to pick one that you and your partner are familiar with. Choosing a position that you are comfortable with will also help build your enjoyment of the encounter since there will be no fumbling or mistakes. Fumbling can pull you out of the moment and make it harder for you to stay in the present. Gay outdoor sex is not the best location to try out a position that you have never done before. Anytime you try out a new sex position there is going to be a learning curve and you need to take your time so that your partner is comfortable and not experiencing any pain but this can sometimes be difficult when you are trying to hurry. Picking a familiar position is a better choice because you will never have to worry about it getting boring since the change of location promises that it will be a new experience for you.

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